| LIVING
IN & LOVING MY OWN BODY AGAIN
There are some women who choose never to have BREAST RECONSTRUCTION
following mastectomy. Clearly, the decision to have reconstructive
breast surgery is very personal and depends on several important
factors including age, general physical health and self-image.
Can-Help
News spoke with June (name has been changed), an attractive lady
in her 40’s who had breast cancer more than 2 years ago. She
chose breast reconstruction after her mastectomy. Breast reconstruction,
or creating an artificial breast, is an option available to most
women who wish to replace the breast(s) they have lost. June shares
with Can-Help News how breast reconstruction changed her life. Now
she is able to enjoy life to the fullest, living in and loving her
own body again.
CHN:
How soon after your mastectomy did you go for breast reconstruction?
JUNE: Immediately.
CHN:
What was your reason for choosing breast reconstruction?
JUNE: I consider myself young and have many more
years to live. I felt that the mastectomy might affect my self-esteem
but I wanted to feel good about myself despite the surgery. So I
read up lot about breast cancer, mastectomy and breast reconstruction.
I got to know the options available for post mastectomy breast reconstruction.
The other reason is that I love to go swimming and visit the gym
occasionally. So using an external prosthesis and special swimwear
would be inconvenient.
CHN:
Who or what convinced you to go for breast reconstruction?
JUNE: Nobody. It was a personal decision. I knew
very well that I want to feel good. When one feels good she will
look good – so I decided to go for it.
CHN:
How long did the procedure take?
JUNE: About 8 hours.
CHN:
What were your feelings like the moment you woke up from anesthesia
after the surgery?
JUNE: I felt tired. I did not sleep well before
the operation because I was anxious. When the surgery was over,
the anxiety was gone. Honestly, I did not feel much pain –
not as bad as my caesarian child birth. However, I was unable to
get up on the first two days. I had a TRAM flap – where extra
tissue and muscle from the lower tummy wall was used to reconstruct
the breast. So, there was a feeling of tautness and numbness in
my abdominal area after the surgery.
CHN: What was your husband’s feeling about
you going for breast reconstruction?
JUNE: He was worried because of the length of the
surgery and was also concerned about complications. He was also
afraid that healing might take much longer than usual. Nevertheless,
he gave me all the emotional support and blessings that I needed.
CHN:
What was his reaction or feelings after you had the surgery?
JUNE: He was very happy with the results and agreed
that I made the right choice.
CHN:
What did you find most satisfying about the surgery?
JUNE: It saves me from waking up and seeing myself
without a breast. I don’t have to buy special swimwear or
clothing or use an external prosthesis. My two young girls are less
affected emotionally when seeing me without a breast.
CHN:
What did you find most about unsatisfactory about breast reconstruction?
JUNE: The reconstructed breast does not have the
normal sensation of a real breast. Sometimes there are some tingling
sensations not amounting to pain which the doctor says is normal.
This is because the nerves were affected during surgery but they
are in the process of healing.
CHN:
Are there any restrictions after breast reconstruction?
JUNE: Not much, except that I was told not to do
exercises that use the abdominal muscles, for example ‘sit-ups’.
CHN:
How has breast reconstruction made difference to the your quality
of life?
JUNE: It does help to improve my self-confidence
and self-image.
CHN:
What advice would you give to a patient considering breast reconstruction?
JUNE: Ask your doctor as many questions as possible
about breast reconstruction. He/She knows your medical condition
and will be in the best position to answer you. Also, talk to someone
who has undergone this type of surgery. However, no one can make
the decision for you. You must know what you want and discuss your
expectations and concerns with the surgeon. Be fully aware of the
risks and benefits of each option of breast reconstruction; be it
an implant, a TRAM flap, immediate or delayed reconstruction etc.
This will help you make an informed decision. Breast reconstruction
after a mastectomy can only improve one’s appearance and renew
one’s self-confidence. Keep in mind that the desired result
is only an improvement, not perfection.
There
is probably no other time in a woman’s life when she feels
less like making herself look attractive than while she is being
treated for cancer, yet I know of no other time when the effort
is more rewarding.
-Nancy G. Brinker- (Founder of the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer
Foundation)
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