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For Patients Undergoing Treatment - Relationship & Sexual Intimacy

1. Can sexual intercourse be harmful to a patient or partner?
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Cancer treatment does not make sexual activity dangerous. Having sex with a patient will not expose the partner to radiation under most circumstances. Check with your doctor, just to be sure. A few chemotherapy drugs can be present in small amounts in semen or vaginal fluids. Ask your doctor whether you should use condoms just around the time of receiving your chemotherapy. These can be symptoms of cancer, but more often they are symptoms of non-cancerous conditions. It is important to check with a doctor.
   
2. Could sexual activity make my cancer worse?
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No. On the contrary, sex and all the love and caring that goes with it can be helpful to those who have cancer. So many people feel depressed, unlovable, guilty and afraid when they have cancer or are being treated for it, Their partner’s affection and acceptance can make a big difference.
   
3. When should a person with cancer not have sex?
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Ask your doctor if sexual activity would cause a problem with your treatment. There are some general guidelines to consider: During recovery from surgery, intercourse can cause bleeding or strain the incision. Intimate contact may also increase chances of an infection. The time between surgery and resuming your sex life varies. This depends on the type of operation and your rate of healing. Your surgeon can tell you when it would be safe to try sexual activity again.

Some types of cancer, like cancer of the cervix or bladder, may cause bleeding in the genital area or urinary tract. If this bleeding becomes heavier after sex, cease intercourse until the bleeding has stopped.

It’s safest either to avoid sex or to be sure to use a condom during intercourse if you are still receiving chemotherapy. Continue to use it for a month after you’ve completed treatment. We are still unsure of what comes through in semen. Also the vagina, especially when aroused, is a highly absorptive organ. Wearing a condom, avoids the stinging sensation some women report. For women who can still have children, it also reduces the theoretical likelihood of foetal damage should any chemicals be absorbed.

During chemotherapy, a person with an infusion catheter sometimes worries that sexual activity will disturb it. As long as you take care not to rub against the dressing, sexual activity should not present a problem.

When you are being treated for cancer, there are often times when your immune system is not working as well as it should. This may happen during radiotherapy or chemotherapy. At such times, you may be at higher risk for infections. Ask your doctor if sexual contact poses too much threat of infection. Also, ask for advice on kissing, cuddling, or sexual touching.

Bacteria that can start an infection in the urinary tract or genital area can be washed away by urinating a few minutes after sex.

You can reduce your chances of getting an infection if your partner wears a condom. The spermicide on the condom also seems to fight bacteria and some viruses. If a woman's vagina is irritated from chemotherapy, foams or jellies may make the problem worse and be painful. Lubricants should be used to help with vaginal moisture

   
4. Can I catch cancer from my partner?
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No. If your partner has cancer, you cannot catch it like a common cold. Although, cancer is not contagious, certain viruses which may cause cancer in the long term, can be transmitted via unprotected sexual contact.
   
5. Can sexual activity actually cause cancer?
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Not in the strictest sense of the word. In practical terms, the development of a few cancers may be influenced by a virus that is passed from one person to another during sex. Cancers of the cervix, vulva and penis seem to be linked to the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV). But very few people who have one of these viral infections get cancer as a result.

There are many factors other than the virus at work, such as: genes we inherit from our parents; whether or not we smoke; our age; and our general health. These dictate whether or not an infection with a virus might affect the development of a cancer.
   
6. Would my doctor or nurse be able to help me with my concerns of sexual relationship?
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You can discuss your concerns with your doctor or nurse. If they are unable to help you, they can refer you to someone who can.
   
7. Would I lose my libido after treatment?
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Some women will continue with their usual sexual activity while others find their libido (sexual drive) decreased. If you experience a loss of interest in sex, do not be alarmed, as this is not unusual. Talk about your fears and worries with your partner. Your doctor or the nurse can also refer you to trained counsellors and therapists to help you overcome such fears and worries.
   



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